Posted August 23, 2013 by Robb Snow in Marriage

How to Win an Ex Back – An Effective Approach

No matter what anyone has told you otherwise, it is very possible to win an ex back irregardless of the situation that caused the breakup. It really doesn’t matter if your partner is having an affair. You can win an ex back even if they say they are leaving you. Even if you are the main problem, this 3 step approach will work for you if you let it.

Initially issues very first. If you would like to win an ex back, then it’s essential to often remember these rules:

Respect your ex. Whatever choices they make you should support whether or not you agree with them. Give unconditional love. This is pretty much self-explaining but it’s a valid point to remember. Be true to yourself. Do not try to manipulate your former lover in any way, shape, or form. Be sure not to try to control them or restrict their choices. If you do this, then your chances of saving the relationship are much better then if you had tried without help.

Now that we have established some “ground rules” so that you can win an ex back, you are probably thinking that you are ready for the 3 step approach. I agree. Here’s the 3 steps needed.

Don’t try and cease them from seeing other persons if they want to.

That touches back on the rule about restricting your ex’s choices. If you make a stink about it, you will drive them away fast. Just let them know that you support them in whatever decisions they make. In time they will realize that you have more respect for them then your rivals and that will help you win your ex back.

Allow some space.

Remember what was said about giving unconditional love? Well, do it. Become comfortable in the fact that you can be responsible for the way you feel about yourself. If your attitude is A-1, that will reflect & your ex will see that. They may even become afraid of losing you & that can only work to your advantage.

Get a check-up from the neck up.

If you don’t change then nothing around you will change. Determine why you fell in love in the first place. Break any bad habits that affect your relationship. Get back to the happy place you were at before the break-up. That is how you win an ex back.[youtube:Tf6vigxP4Dw;[link:How to Win an Ex Back];]

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Robb Snow